In Times of Grief: Update on the Alexander Family

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WHAT DO WE DO?

If we live long enough, we will almost surely encounter moments of deep sorrow & grief. These emotions can be debilitating.

We know that these are things that are “such as are common to man“. Yet, we are usually surprised when they come.

What do we do when life comes crashing down all around us? How do we keep going when we experience the loss of a child, the loss of a job, or the news that we have stage-four cancer? It is at these times that all of our superficial supports seem to evaporate, and we are left with a simple question of, “to whom do we turn“?

The Psalmist answers that question by stating, “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear though the earth gives way.“ –Psalm 46:1-2

These things take time. Grief is a marathon.

THE ALEXANDER FAMILY

The Alexander family is currently wading through this kind of grief. A very close friend of Walt’s dad was murdered along with his wife and two grandchildren. The son of the man who was killed is also one of Walt’s best friends. This man lost both of his parents and both of his children in the same day (you may have seen the story on the national news outlets).

For the Alexander’s, it’s not direct family. But it is. The kids grew up together, they went on vacations together, & now they are grieving together. Click this LINK to read the full statement from the victim’s family.

COUPLE OF QUESTIONS

Right now there are still many questions. Let us attempt to answer a few of them:

  • How can we care for Walt & Kim?

The best thing you can do is to pray for them. That’s not trifle. It’s huge. The Lord is sustaining them.

You can also send notes, cards, or emails. These bits of encouragement will bless them tremendously. Please avoid phone calls or texts at this time. Walt especially is extremely busy in handling affairs.

The church is sending flowers to Walt, Walt’s dad, & the Lesslie family in South Carolina.

  • Who will preach this Sunday?

Walt will be in South Carolina through Sunday. Many men from Sovereign Grace Churches have offered to come and preach on Sunday. Our church is very well cared for! Jeff Purswell, who oversees the Pastor’s College (yes, the one Taylor is attending), will be joining us. And he will serve us well.

  • How long will Walt be gone?

Again, Walt is giving support to the family, and plans to return mid-week.

THINGS CERTAIN

Here is a portion of the recent statement released from the families:

While we know there are no answers that will satisfy the question “why,” we are sure of one thing: we do not grieve as those without hope. Our hope is found in the promise of Jesus Christ, and we are enveloped by peace that surpasses all understanding. To that end, our hearts are bent toward forgiveness and peace. Toward love and connectedness. Toward celebration and unity.

These families are putting their hope and trust in the Lord. Our pastor is both caring for others and being cared for himself—both here and in South Carolina. We are so grateful for the community of believers in times of grief. Thank you for your continued prayers.

—TGC Deacons & Buddy Luster

The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. –Psalm 34:18